Dear Birthparents,

Our names are Nathan and Ali, and we are honored that you have taken the time to read a little about who we are. We would like to begin by saying that we understand this is an incredibly difficult time for you. We know that you love your child very much and that you want the absolute best for him or her. We pray that you find peace and happiness with whatever decisions you make and that your life takes the path you've always dreamed of.

About Us

Both of us were born and raised in central Missouri where much of our family still lives. We attended the same Catholic grade school and high school. It was during Nathan's senior year, my sophomore, that we were both cast in the spring musical. We had a dinner scene together and I was incredibly nervous, as I had a crush on Nathan and didn't want to make a fool of myself. I quickly learned that I didn't need to fear such a thing because Nathan made me feel completely comfortable. We dated for a short time and then Nathan left in the fall to attend college at Mizzou.

The next few years passed and then one summer evening we ran into one another again. The spark was still there, and we had our first official date that put us on the road to marriage. We were engaged in 2004 and married a year later in our home parish. During all of our time together, we had often discussed having a large family and continuing the traditions that were such an integral part of our families' lives. About a year after we were married, we began trying to have children. Unfortunately, things did not go as we hoped. After years of unsuccessful fertility treatments and a miscarriage, we realized that God had an alternative plan for us. We are excited to build our family through adoption, and we can't wait to meet our children.

Some of our favorite things to do together are travel, cook, ride bikes, garden and play board games. We both also love our annual family vacations. Every summer we alternate taking a trip with one of our families. It is so much fun, and we treasure the relationships we have with all of them. It is definitely a family tradition we will continue as we build our own family.

About Ali

I am 31 years old and the oldest of my siblings.  I have one younger sister who is married and has an adorable infant who is also my Godson.   We had a wonderful childhood, and our parents were very supportive of us both.  They taught us to be kind-hearted, honest, and hardworking individuals.  My parents divorced when I was 13 and both of them were remarried a few years later.  From my mother’s marriage, I gained 2 younger stepbrothers, and my father has two stepdaughters and two grandsons from his remarriage.  I grew up surrounded by a large extended family (my father was one of eight), and we have all remained incredibly close to this day.

Many would say that I’m an energetic and creative person who loves children.  My passion for kids led me to teaching, and I have taught middle school English for the past 9 years. Aside from my teaching, I enjoy volunteering, pilates, reading, scrapbooking, and-believe it or not-I like cleaning!  But most of all, I treasure my time with Nathan and my family and friends, and I am so looking forward to being a mom.

About Nathan

I am 33 years old and the second oldest of six children. There are four boys and two girls in my family, and we are all very close. Being the second oldest, I learned at a young age how to help care for my younger siblings.  That experience has come in very handy with our niece and two nephews on my side, one of whom Ali and I are the Godparents of.  Of course I would not be who I was today if not for my loving parents. They gave me everything I needed to aspire to succeed and achieve my goals.

After I graduated from college with a degree in biochemical engineering, I went on to medical school in Saint Louis.  I then completed my training in Illinois, specializing in vascular and interventional radiology.  I am currently employed by a local hospital and really enjoy my job.  One of the best things about my field is that I have a lot of time at home with my family. I’m looking forward to spending my free time with Ali and our children—playing, traveling, and just making wonderful memories.

About Bailey

We don’t mean to sound biased, but we might have the most adorable little dog in the world!  His name is Bailey and he is four years old.  He is very good natured and wonderful around children.  In fact, when we go on walks and a kid comes up to pet him, he automatically rolls onto his back and puts his legs in the air for a belly rub.  It’s the cutest thing! 

In Conclusion

As a couple, our biggest dream is having a family; how we make that family isn’t our focus.  Rather, we are focused on providing a child all the love and opportunities we can.  We know you have a difficult decision to make.  If you are considering us as parents, please know that we will give our all to our family and that we see you as an important part of that family.  We would welcome you into our lives with open arms and build an ongoing relationship with you at a level with which you’re comfortable.  We recognize that we’re only a piece of a child’s life, and that you, as birthparents, hold another important piece.  God bless you always and thank you for taking the time to get to know us.

Sincerely,
Ali and Nathan